Wednesday, November 18, 2009

I have read a few articles over the last few months on the Facebook Status Update. The gist of the articles is the the status update has become the new holiday letter - a place for bragging and "how good my life is" news.

I disagree.

For me, the status update is a window into a moment in a friend's life. The kinds of things that people chose to enter in that box tell me a lot about who they are. Personally, I like to try to find something positive in every day. If I reach the end of a day and cannot look back to find one thing that makes me smile, then my day has been pretty wretched indeed. My status updates try to glean out these gems from my day. The taste of a latte and chocolate scone when I really needed them. The joy of children and bubble wrap. The steamy good feeling of cooking up food for an evening with friends. The absurdity of walking in a lead mine in heels.

Writing about the good in our lives or the funny little quirky things is not false or a form of one-upmanship. It is about finding joy and humor in the million little things that make up every day of our lives.

1 comment:

Fujiyamamama said...

I agree with you Brenda.